About The Book

The Co-Parenting Secret - It's Not About You

Are you working through Co-parenting? Getting ready to? Or maybe you are just looking for more tips on parental relationships in general?

If that describes you, then this is the book for you! But here are some other questions that often resonate:

Do you want to create a great co-parenting relationship but do not know where to begin?

Do you even know what a co-parenting relationship is?

Are you concerned that you or your co-parent are controlling, harassing, or manipulative?

Do you or your co-parent need a fresh way of looking at how you can make it all work?

Is someone introducing a new partner into the co-parenting triangle and looking for advice?

Is your child returning from the other parent’s home unruly, irritable, disrespectful, withdrawn, or behaving differently?

Are there other complexities in the co-parenting dynamic that you are unsure how to address?

The answer to all of these lies in two co-parents being intentional and committed to a positive Co-Parenting Relationship .

When a romantic, sexual or marital relationship ends, we are programmed to believe any sense of a positive relationship has to end. But that is just no the case and “It’s Not About You” showcases how putting ego and animosity aside can allow a new relationship to form for the betterment of everyone!

A positive Co-Parenting relationship helps ensure the children are raised in a productive and cohesive environment across two homes.

Good News is Here…

You can break the cycle and break away from the routine and animosity

In his book It’s Not About You, Jon Bassford gives a clear plan for successful co-parenting that focuses on respect, working together, and the well-being of children.

Through personal stories, practical advice, and research, this book offers a complete guide to creating a stable and supportive co-parenting environment.

Learn how to handle communication problems, make effective co-parenting plans, and put your children’s stability and emotional and mental health first.