The Co-Parenting Secret: It’s Not About You
Most co-parenting books are designed for specific scenarios—high conflict, legal battles, or parallel parenting.
The Co-Parenting Secret is the best co-parenting guide for parents seeking healthy co-parenting strategies and practical co-parenting plan ideas. Whether you’re just beginning the journey or years into it, this book provides effective co-parenting tips along with valuable co-parenting support resources. It delivers a powerful mindset and model for building—or rebuilding—a respectful, child-centered co-parenting relationship.
Through practical steps, real stories, and powerful insights, you’ll learn how to reset the tone, shift your focus, and create long-term peace—for your child and for yourself.
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Why This Book?
Let’s take a look why you should buy this book.
Let Go of Ego & Control
Learn how to shift your focus from winning battles to building bridges. Release the need to control and start showing up for your child’s needs above your own.
Build Mutual Respect
Discover practical tools to create a cooperative partnership with your co-parent — one rooted in trust, communication, and shared responsibility.
Your Child’s Well-Being
Put your child at the heart of every decision. Create a two-home environment that nurtures their emotional security and long-term happiness.
Create Lasting Peace
Move beyond conflict and tension to build a stable, supportive co-parenting relationship your child will be grateful for — now and in the future.
Co-Parenting Coaching for Busy Professionals and Entrepreneurs
No fluff. Just mindset shifts, tactical strategies, and clear guidance to help you co-parent with calm, confidence, and respect—no matter the circumstances.
This is high-touch, 1:1 coaching built around what actually works.
Space is limited. This is a premium engagement for those ready to do the work. Serious inquiries only.
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Give your child the gift of peace between two homes.
Start your journey toward collaborative, child-centered co-parenting today.
Because your child’s future matters more than your past.
About The Author !
With a background in leadership, organizational change, and operations, Jon brings a practical yet deeply personal perspective to one of life’s most difficult transitions.
As a best-selling author (The Curious Leader) and TEDx speaker, he weaves together his personal parenting journey with the tools he’s used to help organizations and individuals embrace change, navigate complexity, and show up with intention.
Customer Testimonials
People are taking about this book take a look.
“I went from constant conflict with my ex to real collaboration. My kids are happier, and honestly, so am I.”
— Melissa R., Mom of Two
“For the first time, I feel like I’m not failing my kids. This book gave me practical steps and so much hope.”
— David L., Newly Divorced Dad
“It shifted my mindset from fighting for control to focusing on what’s best for our child. It’s a game changer.”
— Samantha P., Co-Parenting for 3 Years
Jon combines real-life stories with actionable strategies. It’s not just theory — it works.
— Eric B., Shared Custody Parent
“Because of this book, my co-parent and I communicate better, argue less, and our daughter feels secure again.”
— Laura K., Mom to a 7-Year-Old
Contcact Us
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We’d love to hear from you. Whether you’re navigating co-parenting, looking for guidance, or interested in booking Jon for an event, we’re here to support your journey.
📩 Reach out today — because building a better future for your child starts with connection.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is The Co-Parenting Secret about?
This book is a practical guide to building a peaceful, child-centered co-parenting relationship. It focuses on letting go of ego, fostering mutual respect, and prioritizing your child’s emotional well-being.
Who is this book for?
It’s for any parent navigating separation or divorce who wants to create a supportive two-home environment for their child — whether you’re just beginning the process or years into co-parenting.
How is this book different from other co-parenting books?
While most books focus on conflict management, this one focuses on building a positive partnership from the start and on how you show up as a parent.
Do I have to be on good terms with my ex to use this book?
This book is a practical guide to building a peaceful, child-centered co-parenting relationship. It focuses on letting go of ego, fostering mutual respect, and prioritizing your child’s emotional well-being.
Will this book help if my co-parent is difficult or uncooperative?
Yes. It gives you strategies to stay grounded, set healthy boundaries, and still prioritize your child’s well-being — even in challenging situations.
Is this book suitable for parents with shared or split custody?
Absolutely. It applies to all types of two-home arrangements, from 50/50 custody to more limited visitation schedules.
Can professionals like counselors or mediators use this book?
Yes. Many professionals will find it a valuable resource to recommend to clients navigating co-parenting transitions.
How long is the book, and is it easy to read?
It’s designed to be practical, clear, and approachable — with real stories and actionable steps you can apply right away.
Where can I buy the book?
You can order The Co-Parenting Secret: It’s Not About You directly on Amazon. (Insert Amazon link once live)
How can I contact the author?
You can connect with Jon Bassford, inquire about speaking engagements, or ask questions through the contact form on jonbassford.com.